Friends of God

Ian Toone, Lay member of New Life Church Derby

EARLIER this week, International Friendship Day was celebrated all over the world, a timely reminder that in a world often divided by borders, beliefs, and backgrounds, the simple gift of friendship can become a bridge of grace.

In the Gospel of John 15:15, Jesus says something remarkable to His disciples: “I no longer call you servants… Instead, I have called you friends.”

Imagine that, the Son of God, who healed the sick, calmed storms, and conquered death, calls ordinary people His friends.

This is no casual friendship, but one rooted in love, trust, and self-giving. “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13). В

We often treat friendship as a nice bonus – welcome when it comes, but not essential. Yet the Bible consistently presents it as a powerful, even sacred, relationship. David arid Jonathan modelled loyal friendship in the face of political turmoil.

Ruth and Naomi found strength in their bond across generations and cultures. Even Job’s story, painful as it is, reminds us how deeply friends can influence the soul, for better or worse.

In our polarised age, where online arguments and quick judgements so often dominate, friendship is a quiet but radical witness.

When we offer friendship to someone different from ourselves different race, religion, politics, or background – we live out the reconciling heart of the Gospel.

We echo Jesus, who befriended outcasts, sinners, and strangers.

But true friendship takes effort.

It means showing up, listening well and forgiving freely. To celebrate International Friendship Day, perhaps God is inviting us to take a step toward someone in kindness.

This may involve rekindling a lost connection, offering hospitality, or simply making space for someone new.

Friendships aren’t just found -they’re built, often through small acts of grace.

And if we’re feeling lonely, let’s take heart. Jesus’ invitation still stands: “I have called you friends.” His friendship is faithful, deep, and unchanging.

In Him, we find the friend who never fails and, through Him, we’re empowered to be that kind of friend to others.

Here’s a short prayer: “Lord, thank You for the gift of friendship. Help me to be a faithful friend, like You. Open my eyes to those in need of kindness, and give me courage to love beyond what’s comfortable. Amen.”